Thursday, July 29, 2010

I caught my teenage son and daughter watching gay (MalexMale) porn together? What should I do?

I walked in on my fifteen year old son and fourteen year old daughter sitting on the couch. This was normal, until I saw what they were watching, malexmale porn. I told them to turn it off and go to their rooms... Now what should I do?





I mean is this normal?I caught my teenage son and daughter watching gay (MalexMale) porn together? What should I do?
Most teens watch some type of porn. Let them know you don't approve of it in your house. Realize that you really cannot stop them from seeing this stuff though.I caught my teenage son and daughter watching gay (MalexMale) porn together? What should I do?
i guess it's normal, to start with.


parents have to control the remote control at some point, well, without being too strict or tyrannous.


i guess you should talk to them about the whole thing, without making a fuss. i suggest over an ice-cream treat or a walk round the park.


it's important that you limit the extend and duration of the discussion (call it a day or sleep over the last conversations after the ice-cream is consumed, or the walk is over.)


if you have talked over issues of teenage sex with your kids, and are communicative always, everything will be fine.


may you armed with wisdom and courage, dear parents of our 21st century teenagers, and confront the day!
First off, how were they exposed to porn? was it on cable? If so, you need to block this type of material. PARENTAL CONTROLS. And, I do not think for this day in age, they are abnormal. They probably heard it from kids at school, or even got it (if it was a dvd) from kids at school, and they were simply curious. I went thru the same thing with both my son and daughter at even younger ages. it was they're older cousin telling them to check it out. I really wouldnt worry. But I think now you should go talk to them together and ask them where, why, and dont make them feel like freaks. talk to them about they're curiousity. try to remember what it was like when you were that age and sooo curious.


good luck hun!
Burn the tape and get ride of the rest of the malexmale porn in the house.





Seroiusly though. Kids do things like this. At their age they probably understand what is going on there.





Talk to them though. Ask them where they got it... they won't tell you but you still should ask.





Tell them that how you feel about it... Is porn unexceptable to you... would you prefer they watch straight porn? I would have the conversation with each of them seperately though. Maybe ask them if they have questions and if they have started experimenting with anything sexually.





Just because it was gay porn doesn't mean they are into gay things. They probably just wandered what that was all about. Might be kind of like those videos of crazy things happening on youtube... they got curious and could not help themselves but to check it out.





Best of luck.
Yikes.. Well first of all, don't take the bad road. Try to find out why on earth they were doing this. For all you know, they could both be into it.. Just start off by asking why they were watching that. Don't yell.





Then, I suppose it's up to you. I don't know your opinions on this sort of thing, so do what you feel is best from that point on.
They were probably just curious. Ask them on separate occasions and individually why they were watching that and just sit back and listen. You may learn they are just curious about their own bodies and other people too. No punishment necessary except that you forbid them watching any type of porn due to inappropriate nature for young people.
Yucky! Block those channel for sure or find out where they got the DVD from. I would talk to them 1:1. In a very open manner, find out if they are sexually active, especially your daughter. I was as a teen, but never talked to my mom about it. Inform them about proper birth control. Make sure everything if ok and let them know you (and your husband) have an open door to discuss any ? they may have, even though it might feel uncomfortable, that your'e ok w/it. I would leave the same sex part of it alone...they know the difference.
wow.. hmm well I guess since they are growing up and they have all those hormones going on around in their body,,, but It's reallyyyy weird that they were watching it together... and how did they get it? If their friend is like lending them porn... then... yeah, I would sit them down and have a talk, even though none of you want to, it has to be done. Tell them they are not allowed EVER to do that again, because I'm not sure if that is really normal... anyway good luck!
I don't think it's normal for them to be watching it together! Are you sure nothing else is going on between them? I would keep an eye on them. It wouldn't be so bad for them to be watching it seperately, because it is normal to be curious.
Yes, it is normal.





Oh come on, we've all watched pornography atleast once in our lives.





Just bring them downstairs, make them sit at the table or the couch, and have a good chat with them. Don't be angry or too serious-- Talk like you're an understanding parent.
It's very normal. Their teachers probably gave them a homework assignment, and told them to make it a hands on assignment. They are taking extra time out of their night to learn something new. You should let them finish their work. A reward is on the way for their hard work.
I didn't do this with my brother, but I did sit in a room with his friends and look at magazines at a fairly early age. Each human is curious in their own way, and about different things. I wouldn't make a huge deal about it, but maybe ask, where they got it.
curiosity is normal. but i would talk to them about it. see why they watched it and what they think about it. the worst thing you can do is close the door to discussion.
young teens watching porn - normal





gay young teens watching gay porn - normal





young teens possibly curious over gay porn - possibly normal





brother %26amp; sister duo watching gay porn together - disturbing
no! it isn't normal! i would understand if it was two sons but it isn't right for a son and daughter


sit them down and ask them why they were watching it


maybe they want to know how?
I answered your other question (thinking it was an actual question), but now I'm thinking TROLL. A troll obsessed with homosexual male activity. Sorry about your luck.
WOW! I bet you didn't know what to say, Huh? They were probably flipping through channels and stopped there to see what was going on. You should defiantly have a conversation with them bath- separately! Get parental controls! Good Luck!
No, I'll say it isn't normal and it doesn't sound normal at all.So what you could do is block the sites they're visiting.That's all I know good luck
Some Kids Do Watch Porn, It Helps Them In Ways, I Hope You Know What I Mean, So If I Were You, I Would Block The Channel, And Block Put Parental Controls On Your Computer.
woah...that is awkward...u should probly like get mad at them and tell them thats not right one: your daughter is fourteen 2; your son is watching gay porn.....
lmao akwarddddd......definetly not normal
Oh dear.
wow absolutly not normal! get a belt and WHIP

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