What should I do about my teenage daughter?

My 14 year old daughter is on holiday with her boyfriend. and a weird smell was coming from her room so I decided to give it a clean and I found a stash of used condoms under her bed. what should I say to her???????What should I do about my teenage daughter?
Condoms? Weird smell? Gross!!What should I do about my teenage daughter?
One thing you have no remember, DON'T SCOLD HER!! Cause if you scold her, higher chance she will not tell you what happened. Just ask her like did she have any problems with her boyfriend then if she said yes, ask her what problems, if she say no, ask her about the condom issue but in a calm voice. Like ';I cleaned your room and found a stash of condoms under your bed, what happened?'; IF she screams at your for privacy, tell her that you are just concern about her losing her pregnant before getting married and if she still refuse to say, tell her the trouble of getting pregnant or something like that
Okay Here is what a 14 year old girl would want you to do (im 14), she would want you to never say anything. But were only 14 and need guidance (that's where you come it) you would either take them out of her room no questions asked and scold her and ground her. Or you could do it at our level and talk to her about it, and say ';honey I found these condoms in your room plese explain to me, are you having sex? If so honey tell me and we can talk about and we need to talk about it. Your to young to be doing these kind of things condoms dont always work, do you want to even want have a chance of getting pregnate?! Enjoy your life right now, your just to young.








thats what my mom would do if i was sexually active.





hope i helped
First of all your a stupid mom for letting have a boyfriend and letting them go on holiday together your child is only 14 and could get up to a lot of mischeif, you are so stupid to see that, and then you find condoms in her room and is asking us what you must say to her. you are the parent you must know and i don't even think you should be a mother because you are totally careless about how your daughter is carrying on, did you know she could get pregnant? you are flippin nuts lady! you don't know how to bring up a child right!
Tell her you are proud that she uses condoms- give her a handful of them then ask if she's interested in the implant so if one breaks she won't get pregnant. Then tell her to keep using the condoms anyway but next time can you please put them in the bin!





You need to let her know you know but not so she will do it somewhere else that may be unsafe.





There isn't anything you can do but support your daughter in making healthy decisions for herself.
Although she is underage let me say how blessed you are and proud of her you should be! They are mature enough to take precautions! Dont hit the room, it could be much worse!


I would tell her you know and are upset she couldnt come to you with this.


Talk to her about maybe going on the pill as an added precaution.


Although you may be upset she is no longer your little she is clearly sensible and worried about what you will think.


Don't try to ban them form seeing eachother she will rebel. They have their minds made up you are better off knowing she is safe and having her on side.
i am sorry but as you said she is a teenage and teenage people likes to do any thing at this stage that make them fell adult and big, and they like to do what is not allowed for them, in my opinion the best thing is try to sort it out quitely and make your self close friend with her and then give her right advice. good luck.
Don't accuse her, try to be cool about it has it will alienate her if you are all stressed. Just casually ask her if shes been having sex. Don't say you found the condoms, she will feel violated %26amp; won't trust you.
i think when just you 2 are at home sit down and talk about it tell her you found them and your not angry but you want to take her to the doctors to get a better controception you dont want her pregnant just talk to her
You are only 13 so you cannot have a 14-year-old daughter. If you were a mom then you would know that a teen would never leave used condoms under the bed.
Don't say anything to her, it's her business, leave her to it. At least she's being safe. And they wouldn't smell anyway, troll.
just read your other questions.. you have a daughter whos one year older than you?











be smarter next time, troll.
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troll much? next time hide your questions
If you feel you need to confront her about it do it because she needs to be protected from pregnancy.
Nothing, it's her own responsibilty. At least she's using the condoms.
Please dont snoop around and eww y would she keep them under her bed.and be glad shes using protection!
Hold on, your ';daughter'; is a year older than you. Doesn't work my dear!
Say nothing, stop going through her personal things.
Your not a very smart troll.
strange how in your first question u asked you was only 13 yourself......
I agree with the other person. It's her choice, she will tell you if she wants to
say nothing, quit snooping around.
just be glad she is using condoms!
PinHead has a point ^^
talk to her... duh!!!!!!!!!
troll. one of your other questions was ';how to flirt with a boy';. if u have a kid u know how. TROLL
She's fourteen, way too young to be having sex. She isn't mature enough for that whether or not she wants to admit it. She'll regret it when she gets older. Actually, I read somewhere that most people that have sex before they're eighteen do regret it. Talk to her about it, sex is an obvious smell, so don't mention anything you found in her room. You'll lose her trust. However, if she is a stubborn brat, she'll go behind your back anyway and have sex. Make sure that if she still chooses to after you talk to her, that she is taking the correct precautions. Tell her you don't approve and other things about sex that she probably doesn't know already. I'm thirteen and I tell my grandmother certain things (risks and such, nothing weird.) that she never knew about it. Also, that it can be dangerous, but you'll always be there for her. Good luck.