And that's why they date the ';dangerous'; and ';passionate'; guys, rather than sensitive, unpretentious fellows like myself?More than anything else, do teenage girls seek validation?
I don't know why this is but American culture still in this day and age puts an enormous amount of emphasis on women being in relationships. I know women who are obsessed. In fact wouldn't consider their selves existent without being in one. Then again some guys may be this way too, but I've never heard any constantly talk about it. We should support women in whatever they do and not value them at the end goal of marriage just like we do with men. I mean really, you won't find me seriously congratulating some dude because he got married. That's when the jokes come out.More than anything else, do teenage girls seek validation?
Yes they do.
However, they date dangerous guys as a way to rebel without getting into trouble. HE is the bad one, not the girl. She also toys with becoming bad, (she is EXPECTED to be good because she is a girl. It is a way for her to express herself as she separates herself from her parents and manifests her own identity. Hence, the saying, ';Boys will be boys.';) The unexpected can be very exciting but as with anything else, it becomes old and as the girl matures, she begins to learn that he will not meet her needs (a good provider, loving father to her children, stable relationship, etc.)
I'm a girl who goes for the assholes. Dangerous and passionate, yes. It's attractive to me, because I've grown up with a lack of a father figure in my life, and I seek that validation elsewhere. It causes me to be promiscuous, and decent guys wouldn't take advantage of my vulnerability, which is why I don't end up with them. I end up with assholes.
The dangerous, passionate guys are the ones girls date and have fun with when they're younger and not looking for anything too serious.
Women tend to marry the men who are sensitive and unpretentious..probably because they are more trustworthy and make better fathers. Generally. By no means does this go for all men and/or women, just a general observation.
yes yes
Because we treat them right
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